Are you good to work with?

"Most of us have at some point had an opinion on whether a colleague, client or boss was ‘good to work with.’ We’ve all met people we haven’t enjoyed working with. And most of us…"

How often do you ask yourself the question: “Are YOU good to work with?”

Most of us have at some point had an opinion on whether a colleague, client or boss was ‘good to work with.’ We’ve all met people we haven’t enjoyed working with. And most of us have at some point judged someone else to be ‘not good to work with.’ 

But how often do you ask yourself the question… Are YOU good to work with?

Being easy to work with is the single most underrated career skill. And one that you can easily develop and that will give you so much in return. From expanding your network to increasing recommendations to opening doors to new career opportunities. 

 In this article, we are going to help you discover and dial up the qualities that make YOU good to work with. Because your personal profile, your reputation, and the opportunities that then come to you, are absolutely dependent on whether people think you are ‘good to work with.’

“A good reputation is more valuable than money.”

– Publilius Syrus

Do you have CHARM?

From the mountain of research into what makes a great team player, colleague or boss – we have distilled down the 5 key qualities that will make you good – or even great – to work with.

These 5 key qualities are:

  • Collaboration
  • Honesty
  • Appreciation
  • Reliability
  • Motivation

C.H.A.R.M. By dialling up these 5 qualities using 5 simple tools – you will be someone others seek out and want to work with. All by simply dialling up your C.H.A.R.M.

Firing up your intention

C.H.A.R.M. By dialling up these 5 qualities using 5 simple tools – you will be someone others seek out and want to work with. All by simply dialling up your C.H.A.R.M. 

The problem with being perceived as someone who is difficult to work with is that over time, it won’t matter how good you are at doing what you do. At some point the headaches you cause others will outweigh the value of any work that you do. And people will stop wanting to work with you. Being good to work with benefits you, your team and your organisation. It helps promote collaboration and creativity. It increases motivation and drive. It helps everyone through the good and the tough times as it increases resilience and ultimate success. Finally, it builds connections and opens doors to more exciting opportunities personally and professionally. In an age of AI and increased technology – being good to work with is one of your most vital assets as a human being. 

The truth is, to change your experience of your life, your job and your relationships there’s only one thing you can change. You. When you start to shift your own choices, attitudes and responses – the most amazing changes happen in your relationships, environment and opportunities. This shift in ‘intention’ is what makes you a 4D human being. And by firing up this 4th ‘intentional’ dimension and CHOSING to be good to work with – your life will become richer, more fulfilled, engaged, exciting and full of possibilities and opportunities you would never have predicted. 

So, time to dial up your CHARM

Being good to work with starts and ends with great communication. The more you can dial up and communicate these 5 key qualities – Collaboration, Honesty, Appreciation, Reliability and Motivation – the more people will enjoy working with you and the more productive and creative your worklife will feel.

4D Personal Profile Series

We’re thrilled to introduce the latest 4D OnDemand Series: the Personal Profile Series. Focusing on self-reflection and what it means to be good to work with, this series offers the perfect training solution for you, your team, and your organisation. It provides the language, tools, and tips to help you take control of your personal and professional narrative—both in person and online—so that the way you present yourself, and how others perceive you, maximises your opportunities, connections, and success.

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With love,
The 4D Team x